Thursday, March 20, 2008

Two visits went by so quickly!

We enjoyed another wonderful time with Samuel this morning. It is so hard for me to believe that already our vists with him are over until we return to bring him home. This morning, Julia picked us up from our hotel again, and we went to the notary. We had to sign several documents saying that we do plan to adopt Samuel. This will begin the process with the courts. Then we returned to the hospital.

Yesterday when we were with him, there were 6-8 other people with us, observing. It was a little strange. But today, it was just us and Julia. SO much better! We got to play and have fun with him, and she took lots of pictures. (She called herself our paparazzi!) He loved to play with my necklace again, which I plan to wear often now to remember him. We tried to read him a few books, but he just wanted to chew on them--including the family photo album we brought. We also got to see him crawl and stand up with our help. At first, he was quite reserved, but by the end of the time, we were making him laugh and loved to see him smile. We got a lot of great pictures which we will treasure until we are able to come back. We got to pray with him in the room too, which was a blessing. After about 45 minutes, the nurse returned to get him. She said she could tell that he didn't want to leave us...I don't think he gets much personal attention in his room. He was obviously soaking it all in from us. It made it even harder to leave, knowing that he would pretty much be alone until we return to bring him home.

Julia told us that the judge here will be on vacation for the entire month of May, so that changes our timeline a little bit. If we get the rest of our documents completed as soon as we return, Julia is hoping to turn everything in before the end of April, and will try to get us a court date in early June. But, it will depend on the judge's schedule completely. Our visas will expire on June 15, so if we don't get the process completed by then, we'll just have to apply for new ones. We are hoping we'll be able to be with him on his birthday in early June, so we can celebrate together. God has a good plan for when to bring Sam home, so we'll be waiting on Him.

This afternoon, we are going to go out walking around town again, even though it's snowy and quite cold. Tonight we take the train back to Moscow, and will do some sightseeing there on Friday and Saturday. It will be nice to have something to take our minds off of how much we already miss our son!

9 comments:

wyattearp270 said...

Thanks for taking the time to blog. Fun to read. Glad you were able to enjoy some time with Sam. Can't wait to meet him and to see more pics. Love, Mom and Dad

Heidi said...

Ben and Melissa--I am so so so excited for you! I can't wait to see pictures! It must be so hard leaving your little boy behind. I will be praying often for you.

Anonymous said...

Ben and Melissa-- Our God is an Awesome God. What an amazing experience for your new family. I can't wait to hear more about him and see some pictures! Love you and praying for you, Lindsey Kelsey

Molly said...

Praise God! I cannot get through your entries without tears.
We are so glad that you got to give Sam a bottle and that he made eye contact. Great work to sleep with his bear too. Samuel is a wonderful name - and a wonderful son. Mary and Kent

Molly said...

Praise God! I cannot get through your entries without tears.
We are so glad that you got to give Sam a bottle and that he made eye contact. Great work to sleep with his bear too. Samuel is a wonderful name - and a wonderful son. Mary and Kent

Music Playgroup said...

Ben and Melissa,
It is so exciting to read your blog. I Had tears in my eyes reading about your visits and I know it must be so hard to leave. God is so awesome! He had this child chosen for you this WHOLE time! We'll be praying!

Cindy

Tracy said...

I just found your blog and wanted to congratulate you on your referral :). My dh and I traveled in December to meet our little girl in NN. We're just waiting for a court date :(. I'm so bummed to know that the judge will be on vacation the whole month of May. Maybe we'll be traveling together in June :).

Tracy said...

We found out today that we have a court date in NN on April 30th! We will probably leave on the 27th, so if there's anything that you need/want us to bring over, then just let me know. My email address is tracy.seaman@gmail.com.

we2wits said...

As we sit here and read this, our eyes are filling with tears of joy! "Praise God from whom all blessings flow"... that doesn't even do Him justice, does it? We are SO unbelievably excited for you... even from thousands of miles away! We can't wait to see pictures and someday meet Sam! We love you guys and will continue praying.
Craig and Rebecca