Thursday, June 5, 2008

It's official...he's our son forever!

We just returned from our court hearing, where the judge gave us a favorable pronouncement and also waived the 10-day waiting period. Praise God from whom all blessings flow! The morning started with some stress, however...

We arrived at the courthouse about an hour early to practice our speeches with our translator and get prepared for court. We went into the courtroom about 15 minutes early. A few minutes later, the judge came in from her office with her binder of our paperwork and called Julia (our faciliator) and Dimitry (our translator) over. She was pointing to several pages she had bookmarked, and it was clear she was upset. Julia looked worried, and she and Dimitry tried to explain something. But they didn't get much time to say anything before the judge left. They talked to each other for a moment, and then came over and told us there was a problem with our paperwork. On some of our forms, it said "America World Adoption Agency" and some of them said "Association" instead of Agency at the end. The judge said she couldn't be sure this was the same business. Julia said she had noticed this problem, but had been told it was just a formality and wouldn't be a big deal. Of course, we were super nervous. Both of us started praying like crazy, and I actually asked God to wake some of you up to pray. So, if anyone woke up in the middle of the night and prayed for us, you can blame me! :-) It was seriously the longest 15 minutes of my life, wondering if the judge would return and what she would say.

But, at 10:00, she came back in as if nothing had happened. And all went fine. The hearing lasted a little over an hour. Ben and I both had to introduce ourselves and tell our stories. This consisted of short answers to questions Julia had given us ahead of time. It really wasn't hard, and we were able to look down at our notes. After each of us spoke, the judge asked some follow-up questions. Sometimes they were the same as things we had already said. But, we answered every one. I got asked if my parents would love our son the same as their biological grandson, which I thought was interesting. I told them in their hearts they already had two grandsons and they loved them equally. Good job, Mom and Dad!

The social worker from the hospital also presented testimony about Samuel, and her observations of our time together during our first visit. She said very nice things about us as parents. Before we knew it, the judge left to make her decision, and then came in and changed our lives forever. She declared us the parents of Samuel, and waived the waiting period. We are officially parents forever!

Tomorrow we'll visit him for his birthday, and then we'll pick him up for good on Monday. Thanks for all of your prayers and encouragement. God is clearly answering them. We only made it through today by knowing that your prayers were giving us strength. I'll let you know how the birthday party goes tomorrow. :-)

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a great day!!!! We've been all waiting for this moment with great anticipation. Congratulations to Mom, Dad and their son!!! Hurray!!!!

Natalie

Anonymous said...

I am so happy for you Ben and Melissa!! Congratulations!
Much love and prayers,
Heidi Schulz

Mary Beth said...

Yay!!!!! Praise God!!!! I've been eagerly following your blog and praying for this day! How wonderful that it's finally here. We are celebrating God's goodness with you! I can't wait for pictures.... and for all the details once real life in Florida WITH YOUR SON begins!

Mary Beth Miller

Anonymous said...

i'm officially an aunt! :) we love you and sam and can't wait to meet him!! congratulations!!!

Anonymous said...

Hey Momma and Big Daddy!!! Yay! Yay! Yay! Yay! Yay! Are we ever rejoicing with you!!!!! And are thanks and praises ever going up to God!!!! Can't wait to meet Sam! :0) love, Deb & Jim

Sarah said...

Praise God! He is so good! And you even got the 10 days waived so you can come home soon. Many blessings as you finish your trip :)

Unknown said...

CONGRATULATIONS! We set the alarm for 12:55 AM, rolled out of bed, got on our knees and starting praying. Had no idea of the specific anxiety on the other side of the world - nine time zones away - but we know God is in charge. Thank you God for answered prayers. We are so happy for you guys. Can't wait to meet Sam. Love, Mom and Dad

Taylor said...

Hey you two . . . I mean three!!! Congrats! It was so good to touch base with you guys last week and weird to think that you are now on the other side of the world. God has once again been an amazing orchestrator of all the fine details, and again the end result is better than we could ever dream up on our own. We are so excited for you guys and know you will be awesome parents!!! We love you all!
Taylor, Becky, and Katie

Melissa said...

John and I are so happy for you. We are praying for a wonderful week and summer ahead of you. We love you!

Wolf family said...

What great news! I have chills as I read your account and am praising God with you for all of the specific answers to prayer. Please enjoy your weekend--God will use even those minutes to prepare you for Monday and the rest of FOREVER! Congratulations friends,
Melanie

Anonymous said...

Wow! He is faithful!! Jason and I are so happy for you guys!

bethany

Heather Brandt said...

Congratulations! I'm rejoicing with you today and am so happy that you will get to return home soon with your little one :)

heather brandt

Tracy said...

congratulations :) ! We had the SAME thing happen to us. We were one of the last to adopt from Nizhny before the judge went on vacation, so we figured that she would be in a good mood and everything would run smoothly, boy was I wrong. There was some mix up with the translations of two of my boys birth certificates and she let it be known.

Anonymous said...

Praise the Lord!!!! What an amazing journey you have been on and how awesome to see God's hand in each and every step!! Our God is sooooooo good! I have Holy Spirit bumps just reading your story! Have a wonderful birthday party and safe travel home. We can't wait to hear more!
Love, the Kirsch family

Anonymous said...

The greatest news ... and answer to prayers! We are so excited for you all. Congratulations!
Love ya!

Colette said...

Matt and I are so excited for you guys! We praise the Lord with you! We can't wait to see pictures of Sam!

The Dogs said...

Praise to our God who loves us sooo much. Think of how happy you are at this moment. I'm ecstatic, and Samual isn't mine, so I know that you guys are just on cloud 9. Now...imagine how happy God was when we said we would be his child.... when I think of those kind of God thoughts, I'm completely in awe of God.

Dave and Em'ly Owens

DNS said...

Oh Friends! How we are rejoicing with you! Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy!

Give Sam a birthday hug!!

Love you,
Shannon, Derick, and Asher

Lyndsey Lewis said...

because of moving I haven't been on the internet for a week or so and have not been able to keep up with the progress..until this morning. I am so moved and so amazed at the process of all this and how God has organized and taken care of every little detail so perfectly. Your journey and how open you've been with your heart is so inspiring. I am so encouraged by your faithfulness and this long journey that you've joyfully chosen to walk through. We couldn't be more ecstatic for you and Ben and Sam. Congratulations!! We will continue to pray for you and your family and safe travel home.
We love you guys!